Interracial Dating – A Real Nigga’s Opinion

Interracial Dating – A Real Nigga’s Opinion

















It’s 2012 — two steps away from tourist trips to the moon – a hop, skip, and a jump away from personal robots – we got 3D EVERYTHING – 3D phones, TV’s, computers . . .  a mufugginnn dip, twist, and glide away from having holographic shit . . . that is IF we don’t already have that shit . . .
 
YET.
 
Interracial dating is still TABOO as hell, especially between whites and blacks. So, where does this distaste – this downright apprehension toward the idea stem from? Well, it’s obvious. Technically, Blacks have only been free in America for roughly, 40 years.


Sorry, my friends. But that’s not even a life time. So, in many ways I understand why it’s such a big deal.
 
Our parents/ grandparents have spent the bulk of their lives living in a time that was still blatantly racist. Our generation, on the other hand – in comparison to the generations before us – haven’t really had to deal with SHIT.
 
I’m sure there are some blacks who probably have never experienced racism first hand, at least not blatant racism . . .
 
*stares off*
 
Like a mufucka driving by you on the road while you’re biking, swerving his car in your direction, and yelling “NIGGER!” out the window . . .
 
*begins to have anxiety attack* *kevin hart kid voice* “nooo, nooooo, don’t run me over mister white man, nooo, I have so much life left” *wimpers* *slaps self back to reality*
 
Sorry . . . I grew up in Wyoming, MN . . .
 
AnyWHO. We didn’t have to deal with this shit really. But we HAVE had to deal with the shit indirectly 
 
BECAUSE our parents/ grandparents had to deal with it. How many of you have heard phrases like this from your family?
 
“You better not bring no white bitch home.”
 
“I better not see stringy haired peckerwood walk they white ass through this door.”
 
“I don’t give a fuck if you date outside your race, just don’t date no white bitch.”
 
“White people smell funny — ugh, smell’s like wet dog in here.”
 
“You see how that white bitch just handed me my money?”
 
“Why all these little white bitches walking ‘round half naked? They parents aint teaching them shit?”
 
“I just don’t want no little pasty – simpson looking grand babies, is that so much to ask?”
 
“Mixed kids have problems. No seriously, have you ever met a normal mixed kid . . . SEE, SEE, you hesitated.”
 
Or maybe that’s just my mom lol.
 
Nonethe – fucking – less, these are things that we have to grow up hearing. You may have not have heard these exact phrases, but SOMEONE in your family, including your got damn self, has sputtered some anti-white shit at some point.
 
Don’t trip. It’s perfectly normal. To reiterate, we’ve only been free for 40 years.
 
That being said, I personally think interracial dating is a beautiful thing. Black’s with White’s, Africans with Asian’s, Latino’s with Mexican’s, Native’s with Indian’s i.e. feather’s with red dot’s . . . it’s a beautiful fucking thing and you SUCK if you think otherwise.
 
I feel like people get too caught up on “preserving” their race/culture.
 
FUCK that. Find love wherever it presents itself and learn to love each other for your differences/ similarities. Human beings have this innate urge to separate, to diversify, but why? What has separation ever helped? It’s been at the root of every war/ genocide that’s happened in our world’s history.
 
Scratch it.
 
Throw it away.
 
Black women – if his blue eyes get you revved up. Go after that nigga. If his Spanish accent gets you moist, GO AFTER that nigga. Don’t sit on your hands because it’s frowned down upon (I singled y’all out because y’all be the MAIN one’s trying to preserve some shit – fuck that, be happy).
 
Same goes for everybody else.
 
It’s 2012 y’all. And I don’t know if y’all have noticed, but our generation is definitely a different breed. 
 
We’re about as liberal as liberal gets. We have the power to change the landscape of the world – we’re opinionated, we’re driven (some of us), and we just see the world through a lens that the generation’s before us don’t, simply because we’ve grown up in a VERY different time.
 
Find love where you can find it.  Be happy. The color of neither someone’s skin nor their cultural background should ever get in the way of that.
 
Besides, finding love is hard enough without limiting your dating pool.
 
Later days — MicRNS
 
Here’s some pics of interracial love —


 
Some beautiful shit.
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